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Dr. Mary Barbera
United States
Приєднався 16 бер 2008
I've been helping parents and professionals for over 25 years to increase talking, decrease tantrums, improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training, and more!
I started out as an RN and very confused parent of two toddlers, who struggled in different ways. Since my older son's diagnosis with autism and my younger son's journey with being gifted, I earned a PhD, and became a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst, podcast host, best-selling author, and award-winning online course creator!
I provide daily shorts and weekly video podcasts to support parents and professionals helping young children with and without delays or autism.
Whether you’re looking for Positive Toddler Parenting™ strategies, working with children with speech delays, or in search of child-friendly techniques to reduce tantrums, I encourage you to subscribe to my channel and learn to start turning things around today!
www.marybarbera.com/terms-2
I started out as an RN and very confused parent of two toddlers, who struggled in different ways. Since my older son's diagnosis with autism and my younger son's journey with being gifted, I earned a PhD, and became a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst, podcast host, best-selling author, and award-winning online course creator!
I provide daily shorts and weekly video podcasts to support parents and professionals helping young children with and without delays or autism.
Whether you’re looking for Positive Toddler Parenting™ strategies, working with children with speech delays, or in search of child-friendly techniques to reduce tantrums, I encourage you to subscribe to my channel and learn to start turning things around today!
www.marybarbera.com/terms-2
Which Autism Book is Best for You? Verbal Behavior Approach or Turn Autism Around?
Dr. Mary Barbera discusses her two best selling autism books and goes over which is best for you.
💻 Free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
In today’s episode, I’ll be diving into a topic that’s very close to my heart: my two bestselling books on autism, “The Verbal Behavior Approach” and “Turn Autism Around.” I’ll be sharing the unique strengths and insights each book offers, discussing their differences, and helping you determine which autism book might be the best fit for your needs.
There are books written by professionals like me, designed to help you support your children. There are books written by autism moms and dads sharing their experiences raising kids with autism and there will be autism books written by autism self-advocates that can help give us insight into what they experience navigating life with autism.
My books on autism are unique because I am both a parent and professional. I understand the importance of getting crucial, helpful information out there, but I also believe in making it readable to professionals but also to parents who may need it the most!
🎙️ Get this episode’s show notes here: marybarbera.com/286
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📝 Take the FREE Barbera Early Childhood Assessment (BECA) ™ to find your starting point: bit.ly/41C0HE6
📚 Online toddler and school age courses: bit.ly/41Gir1m
💡 More free parenting resources: bit.ly/479YbGo
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If you enjoyed this video about spotting early delays in children, be sure to subscribe to the channel, like this video and visit my website below. If you have more questions, leave them down in the comments section, and I will do my best to answer you.
Interested in learning more about the Barbera Method™ to help young children with autism, speech delays and/or excessive tantrums?
🌐 Visit My Website: bit.ly/3RURLGC
📧 Contact Us: Info@MaryBarbera.com
You can also connect with us on other socials:
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🧩 About Mary Barbera 👩⚕️
I'm Dr. Mary Barbera and I have been helping parents and professionals for more than two decades ago when my first-born son, Lucas, was diagnosed with a speech delay at 2 and then with autism at age 3. Since then, I became a Board Certified Behavior Analyst, Host of the Turn Autism Around podcast (with more than 1.7 million downloads), and best-selling author of two books (including my newest book Turn Autism Around: An Action Guide for Parents of Young Children with Early Signs of Autism).
In addition to free content, I post daily across UA-cam, Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok. I also offer online courses for parents and professionals. Behavior Analyst BACB CEUs and Early Intervention contact hours are also included for professionals.
Whether you have a toddler with speech delays and/or excessive tantrums or you're a parent or professional helping early intervention clients, I encourage you to subscribe to my UA-cam channel and join me for videos almost every day that will help you increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve eating, sleeping, and potty training!
#autism #autismbooks
💻 Free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
In today’s episode, I’ll be diving into a topic that’s very close to my heart: my two bestselling books on autism, “The Verbal Behavior Approach” and “Turn Autism Around.” I’ll be sharing the unique strengths and insights each book offers, discussing their differences, and helping you determine which autism book might be the best fit for your needs.
There are books written by professionals like me, designed to help you support your children. There are books written by autism moms and dads sharing their experiences raising kids with autism and there will be autism books written by autism self-advocates that can help give us insight into what they experience navigating life with autism.
My books on autism are unique because I am both a parent and professional. I understand the importance of getting crucial, helpful information out there, but I also believe in making it readable to professionals but also to parents who may need it the most!
🎙️ Get this episode’s show notes here: marybarbera.com/286
🔔 Subscribe for more #parenting videos: bit.ly/41c1tae
📝 Take the FREE Barbera Early Childhood Assessment (BECA) ™ to find your starting point: bit.ly/41C0HE6
📚 Online toddler and school age courses: bit.ly/41Gir1m
💡 More free parenting resources: bit.ly/479YbGo
💬 Subscribe on Facebook for more free resources: bit.ly/3tq3u6T
If you enjoyed this video about spotting early delays in children, be sure to subscribe to the channel, like this video and visit my website below. If you have more questions, leave them down in the comments section, and I will do my best to answer you.
Interested in learning more about the Barbera Method™ to help young children with autism, speech delays and/or excessive tantrums?
🌐 Visit My Website: bit.ly/3RURLGC
📧 Contact Us: Info@MaryBarbera.com
You can also connect with us on other socials:
👉 Facebook: bit.ly/3XSVK6n
👉 TikTok: bit.ly/3m0Qbpl
👉 Instagram: bit.ly/3kk5KI3
👉 Twitter: bit.ly/3EybXHc
👉 Pinterest: bit.ly/3lYRODX
👉 LinkedIn: bit.ly/3KwIgtX
🧩 About Mary Barbera 👩⚕️
I'm Dr. Mary Barbera and I have been helping parents and professionals for more than two decades ago when my first-born son, Lucas, was diagnosed with a speech delay at 2 and then with autism at age 3. Since then, I became a Board Certified Behavior Analyst, Host of the Turn Autism Around podcast (with more than 1.7 million downloads), and best-selling author of two books (including my newest book Turn Autism Around: An Action Guide for Parents of Young Children with Early Signs of Autism).
In addition to free content, I post daily across UA-cam, Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok. I also offer online courses for parents and professionals. Behavior Analyst BACB CEUs and Early Intervention contact hours are also included for professionals.
Whether you have a toddler with speech delays and/or excessive tantrums or you're a parent or professional helping early intervention clients, I encourage you to subscribe to my UA-cam channel and join me for videos almost every day that will help you increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve eating, sleeping, and potty training!
#autism #autismbooks
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This has relieved the weight off my shoulder.my son is 2.5 years and can’t speak but he does the rest so well.i believe it’s just speech delay. May God answer all our prayers
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I hope that I'm not wasting my time saying this Melton basically means to throwing a tantrum or frustrated and starts throwing stuff that's what I mean by a meltdown I am trying to take on a child that is autistic and it's my future husband's other child from another woman I want to learn how to handle her without her hurting herself or hurting others
Check out a free workshop at marybarbera.com/workshops
Both very helpful! I have both! ❤
Great!
Does abilify help with this kind of situation?
Great episode. Very helpful!
Glad it was helpful!
Thank you for sharing
Thanks for watching!
Awesome, Mary!! ❤
Thank you! Cheers!
Thanks for the info! How do you prevent a child from grabbing whatever they want, whenever they want? And sometimes, I may be going to give the child that preferred item, but they’re grabbing at it before I can even hand it to them.
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Me toe walking at 8 years old Parent: why do you do that Me: sorry I'll stop *Me continuing to do it by myself 💀*
Thank you for the information
No worries!
I love eating air freshener tastyyyy
ok so basically, i’ve been suspecting i have autism AND adhd and this is why. Talking: I don’t like talking to people i don’t know as in like as if i’m talking to a teacher i just met or i’m at the doctors or something that had to deal with talking in general, but when i’m with close friends i feel like i couldn’t stop talking and had to feel like i needed to talk Stimming: I’ve been stimming a lot over things i like (sharks, dinosaurs, my favorite shows, etc) but i’ve also been stimming at stuff i don’t like or stuff that makes me feel disgusted or makes me feel unstable. Like if i do the dishes sometimes i’ll be really disgusted and i’ll start stimming and whining and sometimes i’d start jumping to. Normal actions: I fidget a lot, normally and when i get anxiety. I’d start playing with my hair or i’d start playing with my hands. What i don’t like: I don’t like loud noises, my ears are really sensitive so when i hear loud noises i get overly obnoxious and i start stimming. When i hear loud noises i’ll get a headache that’ll last for a long time. Hints: People have been telling me that i’ve been having signs of autism, and i’ve been seeing signs, so now i’m trying to figure it out.
My son has Down Syndrome and has ASD. HE IS ALREADY 8 and until now potty training is so difficult. 😢😢😢
I need advice. My gf nephew is stage 3 ASD. He and his mother have been staying with us due to her boyfriend, who is her brother, passing away. He has his days where we will whine for no apparent reason. He’s nonverbal, but I heard him only say two words, “no” and “hey.” I got frustrated because he whined when I tried to sleep after work. I feel he does the whinnying because he wants attention. Is there anything I can do to handle this situation better? I know my girlfriend cares about him dearly. I care about him dearly as well. I suggested getting him some picture books and starting to read to him. He only wants to watch UA-cam, which is not a good idea. From researching, I think he’s having sensory overload from the content. I noticed he would laugh if someone got hurt or something terrible happened. He recently started walking and kicking the door open. He was trying to bite his brother, and he tried biting me as well. How can I handle this behavior? This is new to me and has been an adjustment for me. Do you have any advice?
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Thank you for sharing your story!
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QUESTION - Over the last 20-30 years have their been a change in the age kids develop.. or has their been an overwhelming amount of inconsistency of the average age kids start developing ???
They are able to diagnose much earlier so i'm sure the data would show it developing much earlier.
@@marybarbera thank you for the fast response, your videos are very helpful and so much appreciated
Good information
Thanks so much! Get more of this information in my online courses for parents and professionals bit.ly/3GZjn7m
My older son and younger niece both had speech delays but one had sensory processing disorders and one didn’t. Both are talkative and very social now but quirky
That is good they are doing well!
My daughter is Non Speak able she is 28 yrs old is it to late to teach? She had alot of gut issues when she was young now she is on a strict diet and is behavioral wise doing amazing.
It is never too late! Check out a free workshop at marybarbera.com/workshops
Whoever is reading this I hope you stay safe and well 💗 💓 💕 💖 💜 ❤️ 💗
To tell you the truth coming from experience. Do not I repeat do not give in so easily to your kid with autism. We as parents have to be extra strict with kids with autism because they are clever and very smart. And once you give in to the tamtrum they will keep acting with tantrums because you give in to that! Start going out with your kids and get some Vitamin D! A lot of people don't go out with their kids with spectrum because they care what other people think and some unfortunately are ashamed because their kids act like that! But let me tell you God made us beautiful and unique in different ways! And consider your kid as an extra blessing and God never makes mistakes! So be grateful that your kids are the way they are! And if you really need help look for videos and seek professional help! But before you do check their reviews first! Happy seeking and always think positive because life is too short!
I’m writing a paper😩😭
wheres the link for workshop ?
Here you go! bit.ly/3GZjn7m
it would be nice to have some videos for some older kids
What age? A lot of my videos and courses work for kids of all ages who are not conversational. If they are conversational, that is not my area of expertise!
Where and how to join?
Join here! bit.ly/3GZjn7m
I’ve heard it’s good to get at their level but I’ve seen one woman with a child do table time and it seems like she’s got her daughter to learn a lot. I got your audio book so I’ll listen to it. You mentioned this episode you would go over what to do when it doesn’t go well but I didn’t hear any tips on that. Would have been great for more examples and tips in this video.
There is a lot of videos and help for this in my online courses. and we help you troubleshoot! It is a great tool alongside the book. Check out a free workshop bit.ly/3GZjn7m
The cdc milestones for 18 months are ridiculously insane
in what way? If a child is not meeting them, we do want to start helping support them as soon as possible.
Even. Tho. I'm a kid I want to have kids. And I want to. Know what you do to help. Them. Get potty trained
When and how do I join the workshop 🙏
Join here! bit.ly/3GZjn7m
💻 Free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
Hi, Dr. Barbera. I hope you can assist me. We have a client with Autism and ADHD who has a history of physical aggression and was recently hospitalized due to aggressive behavior. Lately, we've noticed that he seeks attention in the community and becomes aggressive (e.i. biting, kicking, throwing) when he doesn't get his way. This often leads to an emergency use of manual restraint (EUMR) to prevent an imminent risk. When he's escalating, he doesn't respond to redirection, and in his previous placements, he had at least 200 EUMRs in 3 months. As a lead staff member, I'm trying to convey to our management the importance of teaching the client the difference between rewards and consequences. Currently, management focuses only on rewarding him and overlooks the consequences of his negative actions. During EUMRs, most of the staff members end up getting injured. It's frustrating, but I'm determined to find a solution because I'm concerned about the safety of the staff, the client, and the community. I want to help this client, and the safety of everyone involved is a top priority.
Ultimately, we want to prevent these behaviors from happening. Reduce demands and increase reinforcement and take data on when it doesn't happen..we don't want to escalate to points of restraint if possible. I do have some resources in my online course related to this www.marybarbera.com/workshops
Must be something that moms do in pregnancy,maybe painkillers,maybe doppler and ultrasound
It is hard to say without much research isolating any causes.
Maam people with these symptoms can drive Car??
Some people end up being able to, and some cannot.
@@marybarbera ma’am person with 74 Iq is learning disable or ASD??
We used to screen babies for being at risk and a big one was smiling at 2 months of age when looking at your face.
So they smiled at that age or didn't? I recently did a full episode with a developmental expert on this www.marybarbera.com/284
I am disabled person
I am happy you are here!
@@marybarbera where are you from dear
@@marybarbera I am from windy. My left arm was cut . any person help me to give me artificial arm plz thanks
I was a baby and young child during WW2. My mother always told me that I didn't talk at all until I was 2 and then, when I did begin to speak, I spoke in whole sentences. Since I do have baby and toddler memories, I think I just didn't have anything to say to the people around me sooo.....I didn't.
My child is 5.5years old .. he dont communicate ...i dont know why ... he knows every thing he has vocabs also .. but why he is not interested in communicafion i dont know
This can be common. There are games and tools you can do with him to improve communication. Learn more with a free workshop www.marybarbera.com/workshops
QUESTION: I read that by the age of 8 or 9 hyperlexia becomes a greater struggle for the child because of their reading comprehension abilities. If so, what can you do to help strengthen their reading comprehension? What can we do at home as parents to nurture this?
Yes, this is quite true! comprehension can be a big struggle. I talk about how to help with this and build comprehension in language and reading within my online courses that is for parents. Check out a free workshop at marybarbera.com/workshops
My grandson hits with open hand when he gets exited ( usually while watching kids videos on his iPad) he throws toys only while playing not on an aggressive way. He throws tantrums or wines when he wants something or gets frustrated. I will definitely will implement this technique.
Good luck! Also make sure to check out the turn tantrums around mini courses at turntantrumsaround.com
My child's ABA facilitator or therapist asked me if my child (with autism) gets time out when he is not behaving. We do not give him time out. I didn't asked why she was asking nor she explained why. I purchased your book. I started watching your videos here on UA-cam. I am learning and have to say...I have to change a whole lot to help my grandson. He was diagnosed Jan. 2024 we are kind of new at this.
It is great you are here and watching the videos but I encourage you to sign up for my full online courses so I can step by step help you to improve things for him. Take a free workshop at marybarbera.com/workshops
You have amazing ideas! Thank you so very much! My son has down syndrome, adhd and is also on the spectrum, so lots of good ideas to increase his strengths! Thank you!
Yay! So glad these videos are helping. We have several parents of kids with DS in our online courses over the years. Attend a free workshop to learn more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
I would recommend two excellent books that I read over the past year: "Chose Wonder Over Worry" by Amber Rae & " Teen Violence in America, How Do We Keep Our Children Safe?" by James Kolb. Mr. Kolb in his book stated that an IEP for a disabled student relates to academic goals only. Many children and teenagers would be helped: What do I do if an older child is teasing me about my disability when they on the playground or in the city park. In the past, some people were taught to deal with anger by punching a pillow or manakin doll- preceding shows aggression, activates the fight flight response and releases cortisol- stress hormone. Better way to handle anger: Slow down therapy, jumping jacks/push ups no more than your age, technique: " positive connotation"- need a third party- individual or group for this to work, music, leave scene, go somewhere safe & do art/write therapy etc. All emotions when recognized are trying to teach us. John Doe starts having a headache & leaves work early. Mr. Doe has headaches over the weekend and 2 sons are camping with Boy Scouts. His wife tells her husband to call the family doctor Monday morning. As of Thursday, she learns her husband Mr. Doe has not called the family doctor. What could be the reason for his procrastination? Answer: Fear- could the headaches he is having be diagnosed as a brain tumor? Also for children, teenagers and young adults, the issue of Perfectionism. A female author, name unknown, book title not remembered, change the word "perfect" to the word: "excellent". " I'm going to write a perfect essay for school" changes to: " I will write an excellent essay for school". For students that receive 100% on a test or quiz- change " I got a perfect score" to: " I aced the test". About fear of failure: in the 1700's a man's project failed his plan however due to that failure air conditioning started and around 1924, a 12 year old boy forgot to clean up outside porch. Temperatures dropped below freezing and leftover soda had a stick in it to stir sugar into the soda and that is how the Popsicle started.
What to do when the public education system coddles??
Great Question! To learn more attend a 💻 free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
Can a toddler have delayed cechololia and not be autistic?
Great Question! It depends on how much your child is echoing and other skills. Either way, our strategies can work! To learn more attend a 💻 free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m
What type of dr. Will his primary refer him to? My 4 yr old will mostly repeat what he hears. Also, screams alit. The school will do an extensive test.
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I know a person in mind who is 13 and still scripts certain shows like Peppa Pig and Cocomelon, it still hasn't stopped and yet I still have to deal with it.
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Thank you. My son is 4 and he’s borderline about to be kicked out of daycare even with having a RBT. The daycare let him go a week barefoot not he’s refusing to keep his shoes on
That sounds hard and taking shoes off is common. To learn more attend a 💻 free workshop to help young children increase talking, decrease tantrums, and improve picky eating, sleeping, potty training and more: bit.ly/3GZjn7m